when it comes to relationships, it is my opinion that trust should be way up there on the list of What Will Make It Last. Trust and fidelity, ya know? 

i have come across quite a  few people who freak when they see their other half talking to another person of the opposite sex. start getting all clingy and start marking their territory in public. seriously? when this is me they are talking to. i fail to see why and how i am a threat lol. i should be so flattered. or maybe they treat everyone like they are going to steal their man away.

logic and love. do they even belong together in the same sentence? can one in love be logical and rational? or is the very essence of love doing what your heart and not what your head says?  

i suppose that having one controlling/possessive/dominant person in the relationship works for some. perhaps some actively go out looking for a dominating personality. i guess, happiness is defined differently for different people.

well. the two times where i felt the MEOWR-stay-away-from-my-man vibe coming from the females; those relationships have since broken down. as for the third and most recent time (this is what inspired these thoughts), i do not know if she is in a relationship with him. but that whole vibe. meowr. while we were a small group of people out of a room full of people. god it was so weird. i could pretty much hear the hissing and unsheathing of claws. personally, i find it a hugeeee turn off. but as i have already said, different strokes different folks.

ahhhhhh. i don't know. weird random ponderings on a sunday night.